CONFLICT AND RELATIONSHIPS

Occasional conflict is a part of life according to a New York based psychologist. But if you and your partner feel like you’re living in your own nightmare I.e the same lousy situations keep repeating day after day, it’s time to break free of this routine. When you make the effort, you can lessen the […]

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WRITING YOUR OWN LOVE STORY

1. Make yourself physically appealing. No one likes an ugly duckling. If you are ugly then you may as well kiss the chances of getting hitched with a hottie goodbye   2. Do not be a recluse. Go out and talk (flirt in a good way and with the right people) with other boys […]

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LACK OF MONEY IN A RELATIONSHIP

Money problem can start even before wedding vows are exchanged Problem solving strategies;   Be honest about your current financial situation. If things have bad or wrong continuing with your lavish and expensive lifestyle has to change. Don’t approach the subject in the heat of battle i.e don’t approach your partner when he/she is in a […]

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WHEN COMMUNICATION IN A RELATIONSHIP BREAKS DOWN

All relationship problem stem from poor communication, according to ELAINE FANTLE SHIMBERG; author of blending families. You can’t communicate by checking your phone, watching TV, flipping through sport section. Problem solving strategies;              i.            Make an actual appointment with each other. If you are together put your cell phones on […]

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WHO HAS THE MOST POWER IN A RELATIONSHIP

Authority is not about right, it’s about responsibilities It isn’t about seeking prominence, it’s about giving prominence It is not domineering and dictatorial, it’s humble and gentle It is not about selfish gain, it’s about selfless sacrifice Every Authority is accountable to a higher authority Pure authority is motivated by love and commitment. Pure authority […]

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HOW DO YOU LET GO OF YOUR EX

Getting through a break up is like getting through the withdrawal of drug dependency 1.     Accept whatever you feel 2.     Don’t isolate yourself 3.     Get your diary out and fill in it with different activities, especially on the weekend 4.     Get rid of relationship reminders 5.     Break away completely from each other right after the […]

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