Money problem can start even before wedding vows are exchanged

Problem solving strategies;  

  1. Be honest about your current financial situation. If things have bad or wrong continuing with your lavish and expensive lifestyle has to change.
  2. Don’t approach the subject in the heat of battle i.e don’t approach your partner when he/she is in a bad mood. Look for a convenient time when he/she is calm, sober to talk to, then you guys should talk things out.
  3.  Know your partner well enough i.e the saver and spender among the both of you then you guys gonna know how to cut your expenses.
  4. Don’t hide your financial status, know your partner income and debt and bring your investment to the table.
  5. Don’t blame.
  6. Construct a joint budget that include saving
  7. Decide the person who will be responsible for paying monthly bills [preferably the men]
  8. Allow each person to have independence by settling aside money to be spent at his or her discretion
  9. Decide upon short term and long term goals. It’s OK to have individual goals but you should have family goals too
  10. Talk about caring for your parents as they age and how to appropriately plan for their financial needs if need
  11. Many relations cannot be evaluated in terms of money or gain, because some investments never make profit, but still they make us RICH   

                                   

NOTE; This can only work for people in a long term and serious relationship not SEX game.

In conclusion, click here to read about communication problem in relationship

                                                                               

 

Author

theaduni

Leave a comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *