Hey guys… I know this might sound cheesy, cheap or lame. Trust me,  it’s not have seen a lot of people falling in love with their best friend but afraid to show it.
They keep asking
“is it OK for me to fall in love with my best friend ”
” Am I not supposed to love he/she as a friend and nothing more”
You can’t blame yourself tho, when it comes to the matter of the heart even the strongest person becomes weak, you can’t cheat/ deceive yourself when it comes to the matter of the heart.
You don’t have to think about what people will say. You keep telling yourself “NO” it’s normal for me to love my best friend as a friend but you get jealous when you see he/ she with someone else. You keep telling each other I will look for a nice partner for you and you die inside every minute he/ she spends with that person.
You get angry at everyone but it’s not their fault it’s yours. Own up to your decisions, stand firm on your feelings, picture your future together it your life no one is gonna live it for you.
Your life, your mistakes, your decisions not theirs.
So here’s the question. How do I date my best friend without sending/ scaring he/ she away
* As your best friend you probably know everything about the person that’s your starting point cos he/ she is not a stranger to you
* Make the person realize that he/ she can’t find someone like you
* Spend more time with he/ she than you do before
* Show the person you care
* Support the person in whatever he/ she Is doing and give the right advice
You keep telling yourself he/ she is my best friend we gonna make a Good couple. People are gonna talk about it for a while. You’ll get past it
It’s your life, your happiness
In conclusion, click here to read about regaining trust in a relationship



Comments (5)

  1. Monidipa Dutta
    April 12, 2018 Reply


  2. Ntensibe Edgar
    April 12, 2018 Reply

    Aaaaannnnhhhhaaaaaaaaa….sounds about time, for me, to actually try this, Dutta! Thank you for sharing.

  3. dunni_stitches A DUN NI
    April 12, 2018 Reply

    I know right

  4. dunni_stitches A DUN NI
    April 12, 2018 Reply

    Plesse do… Would love to hear your feedback on how it goes

  5. Johne308
    January 21, 2019 Reply

    I really like your writing style, good information, thank you for posting

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