Dear future self, whatever you are doing right now,stop. Take a moment and have yourself a proper personal day and don’t you dare feel guilty for taking the time for yourself.
This year has been crazy so far, you’ve learned what love really means,the lengths to which friendship can be tested. A couple of things to remember, you learned how to honor and treat your body well this year, how to honor and treat those around you. Don’t ever settle for the easy way, just don’t settle ever. Life is too short to worry about what people think about you and remember that this current version of yourself loves you and that’s not going to change.

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Future self, take a breath look down at your two feet where are they right now? Look around you,was this how you pictured/imagined your life to be right now. Go take a bite of something delicious and savor every moment with absolutely no concern about any kind of weight gain.

Not everyone is privileged to have access to food, so superficial esthetic should be the least of your worries regardless of the deep societal imposition. How have you been of service to others lately?

Life isn’t a sprint, it’s a long race and you are not in it just to “win”. Be gentle with yourself, be messy sometimes, let it all go.

Embrace all of your learning’s and Cherish your experiences because they truly are divinely fated.


You will have enough time to do everything that you love, so stop stressing so much, you miss the beauty when you are stressed. Be here now, hug those around you, ask them how they are doing and truly listen (without plotting your response at the same time). The inexplicable sensation of true connection and understanding is the best feeling in the entire world. Money is just a number, a plus, it comes, it goes.

Love is the true currency
No one lives forever so be sure to Cherish every moment, and when they pass and when you pass, find comfort in knowing that we are simply souls within these bodies and we will all be connected at some point again. Life is a gift, not something that is given, so enjoy every second while you’re here.

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Hey, future self, what’s up!!!
Life has been interesting, crazy, fun, boring, unexpected, expected a lesson in opposition.

Despite all the constant frustration, you’ve managed to wear glitter every damn day and hey that’s a type of victory right? Your clothes are on point, a ton of colorful outfits in your closet. You’ve got friends and an average family. You get to spend time outside in one of the most beautiful places on earth and you’re in the best shape of your life thus far, so that’s great. As you continue to age, you’ll continue to get more awesome.
Remember the goal is to peak at 90(or later) you’ve got a lot of time. Despite the set backs and frustration you are on your way to making all your dreams come true.

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Future self, everything that has happened has lead you to this moment, don’t change a thing, everything worked out exactly as it should be. All the puzzle pieces fit, all paths makes sense. All the people were meant to be, all the successes and failure, heartwarming and heartbreaking moments were all with it

“No regrets, you were and are and have been and always will be yourself and that’s what matters above all”

Future self, am assuming you reading this right now. Right now your life is one giant crossroad it’s exciting, its frustrating, its temporary, I hope you have a few more things figured out by now, I also hope you still have some questions. Keep asking them.
I’m sure you got a lot going on right now and that’s good just don’t lose track of what’s important, what’s worth making time for.

Spend time with people you love, that’s first and foremost, always pick up the phone, make plans, get out even when the couch is calling do random things that’s makes you happy. Trust that things will work out, or change them if you don’t like the charted course.

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Hey girl, slow down for a second, I have some things I want to share. Some stuffs is going to happen to you, you won’t be able to plan for it, pencil it in your schedule for when is good for you or always have someone who’s gonna guide you. You’re going to have to just “roll with the flow” take it in reap lessons from it and then carry on, head held high. Maybe write on it, some times insights don’t come quick, but there’s something positive to be found from most experience in life. Focus on that you are going to have a lot mantra throughout your life that are going to help you.

Not that there’s anything wrong with that but mantras like people will come and go in your life and as much you’d like to you can’t hold on to them all. You best realize this now and just try to enjoy what you have in the present moment.
Just because it passes doesn’t mean it wasn’t powerful or important and you are not silly for believing in it, please never stop holding on to hope, it will cause you pain, but it will also help you get through the days, excite you and make your heart feel big like a cotton candy

You got this

Write a letter to your future self and see how it goes.. It not a must u show the world..



Comments (3)

  1. Unknown
    July 3, 2018 Reply

    Loved this letter! Absolutely beautiful and confidence galore! Thank you for sharing.

  2. theadunni__
    July 3, 2018 Reply

    Glad you enjoyed it

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