People often think if they want something, they can get it on a platter of gold, but most people don’t know life isn’t like that and some people know but just choose to ignore it. I tell people if you keep wanting all your life without working for it, it going to remain WANT, there are no two ways about it.
There are a lot of people out there who want something but can’t/ don’t want to work for it. Don’t depend on people all your life…it’s toxic, it bad, people are going to peg as you as that person always begging and it’s not good for your mental health.
YEAH!!! We all have that aunt/uncle we can ask things and talk to when we need something and they give us immediately but do you want to be independent all your life. I’m tired of hearing the same excuse, same story every now and then ”My parents provide everything for me, I don’t need to work for anything, my dear you are deceiving yourself”
What if your parents sleep and never wake up again?
What if they fall ill?
What if their business crash?
There are a lot of what if’s, what are you going to do then, my dear you going to hate your parents and probably regret for the rest of your life. Which explains why some single parent especially mothers suffer when their husband dies because they’ve been a full housewife all their life and they regret it every second, every minute, everyday of their life
My dear, no one wants to hear story that touch, no one will listen to you. Don’t sit down idle and do nothing, don’t expect your parents to do everything for you or else you are going to be second fiddle all your life. Don’t just want it, work for it. Have always wanted to be a fashion designer and blogger all my life, I just tell people I want this, I want that, I want to be like this in the next few years, have always been wanting till I decided to start working for it. You might not get the result immediately but you have to keep working for it, like they say, persistent is key
The fact I said if you want something you work for it doesn’t mean you have to be working without focus, don’t just work without getting any results. Like I said earlier, you might not get the result immediately but you can’t give up half way right because what’s the point of wanting something you can’t work for, something you can’t fight for, you can’t be lazy and want something, it a big NO, the two doesn’t work together, it doesn’t work like it, one has to go for the other. You might know a lot of influencer, business mogul but if you are not ready to work “you just know them for knowing sake” and you are going to be in the same position all your life, a loser, a lazy person, someone living in his/her dream all your life.
This is a wakeup call for people out there, there are a lot of creatives out there but you people are just lazy because you know someone or a particular friend of yours doing a particular trade and it working for that person and it doesn’t require a lot of energy or you know someone that pays people to do things for them and it working for them doesn’t mean it will work for you. Besides, where’s the fun in working if you get people to do everything for you.
Don’t be lazy, I beg you… don’t just be a slay queen, beauty without brains is nothing, don’t be a bimbo and if you feel you want to something or work on something and you need some sort of motivation, feel free to message me.
If you want something, work for it and you will be happy you did, trust me. Lastly, procrastination kills, procrastination is the reason we have lazy youth now, say this to yourself every morning PROCASTINATION STAY AWAY FROM ME. Repeat it, let it be your mantra everyday. Write it down, put it somewhere you can see it everyday… it going to keep you going, trust me.