Start by asking yourself this questions * Does a guy have the right to take his girlfriend phone away/ preventing her from making calls? * Does a guy have the right to prevent his girlfriend from going out * Does a guy have the right to physically force his girlfriend to accompany him when he’s […]
CONFLICT AND RELATIONSHIPS
Occasional conflict is a part of life according to a New York based psychologist. But if you and your partner feel like you’re living in your own nightmare I.e the same lousy situations keep repeating day after day, it’s time to break free of this routine. When you make the effort, you can lessen the […]
RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PRIORITIES AND SUCCESS
If you want to keep your love life going, making your relationship a focal point should not end when you in a relationship Find it, keep it, make it last SOLVING: 1. Do things you used to do when you were first dating 2.Show appreciation, compliment each other, contact each other through the day and […]
WRITING YOUR OWN LOVE STORY
1. Make yourself physically appealing. No one likes an ugly duckling. If you are ugly then you may as well kiss the chances of getting hitched with a hottie goodbye 2. Do not be a recluse. Go out and talk (flirt in a good way and with the right people) with other boys […]
SIGNS YOU ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE
1. You keep thinking about the person 2. You keep seeing the person picture in your mind You keep asking your self am I in love or what this feeling 3. You go through your chats and read them all over again 4. You record your calls over the phone and listen to it all […]
LACK OF MONEY IN A RELATIONSHIP
Money problem can start even before wedding vows are exchanged Problem solving strategies; Be honest about your current financial situation. If things have bad or wrong continuing with your lavish and expensive lifestyle has to change. Don’t approach the subject in the heat of battle i.e don’t approach your partner when he/she is in a […]
WHEN COMMUNICATION IN A RELATIONSHIP BREAKS DOWN
All relationship problem stem from poor communication, according to ELAINE FANTLE SHIMBERG; author of blending families. You can’t communicate by checking your phone, watching TV, flipping through sport section. Problem solving strategies; i. Make an actual appointment with each other. If you are together put your cell phones on […]
WHO HAS THE MOST POWER IN A RELATIONSHIP
Authority is not about right, it’s about responsibilities It isn’t about seeking prominence, it’s about giving prominence It is not domineering and dictatorial, it’s humble and gentle It is not about selfish gain, it’s about selfless sacrifice Every Authority is accountable to a higher authority Pure authority is motivated by love and commitment. Pure authority […]
SHOULD A GIRL BE FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT IN A RELATIONSHIP
The answer is ‘’NO’’. No matter what, guys love independent ladies, no guy wants to have a liability in his life. Well, I cannot speak for all guys, I honestly think this is a big misunderstanding. Most guys loves a strong, independent woman. I think the misunderstanding comes from different interpretations of how an independent […]
HOW DO YOU LET GO OF YOUR EX
Getting through a break up is like getting through the withdrawal of drug dependency 1. Accept whatever you feel 2. Don’t isolate yourself 3. Get your diary out and fill in it with different activities, especially on the weekend 4. Get rid of relationship reminders 5. Break away completely from each other right after the […]